Here at Bonnie & Clyde Bondage Furniture, we strive to keep an open mind about all things bondage and discipline. But how can bondage, pleasure & pain help with this? We recognize the fact that people can view BDSM from a variety of angles. They can be more, or less, involved in the lifestyle. People from every imaginable walk of life practice some form of BDSM just a little. Or, some build their whole lifestyle around it.
We have been open here about our own journey, along with our continued interest. We are not a full-blown sub/dom couple. Our BDSM activities, while likely far more involved than the average couple, we mostly reserve for our sex life.
One thing we have found, however, is that when we (Clyde at first) became interested in actual bondage/discipline implements, such as various toys as well as furniture, that took things to a whole new level.
You may be trying to introduce a partner to some mild bondage and/or discipline.
What better way than to have a relatively tame nipple clamp, or slapper, or a beautiful bondage bench?
Bondage furniture, or, if you like, sex furniture, can be just the ticket to get a reluctant partner interested. By reluctant, I do not mean “not interested at all.” I mean someone who has never tried anything and is the tiniest bit nervous.
We are all about consensual stuff here, but we know that everyone has to start somewhere. A simple, yet elegant bondage sawhorse, complete with pads in all the right places and restraint points, allows you to experiment to your heart’s content.
The possible positions on one of these are myriad. This is why it is the one piece we always recommend for those starting out. It is also far and away our most popular piece.
You can add a variety of optional pieces as well, if and when you decide to delve more into advanced ideas.
What I’m trying to get at here, is that BDSM can make your sex life awesome. I doubt that it will improve a lousy sex life. But if it’s already pretty good, you can make it amazing. That’s what happened to us, and we have heard many similar stories.
It’s easy for sex to become mundane and a little boring (not necessarily unpleasurable, but somewhat boring, nonetheless). So why not find some new ideas to explore to give it some pizzazz?
And, contrary to what you may have been told, BDSM is not a mental disorder. Of course, people can, and do, sometimes take things to extremes, but that is not what we are about here. We are about offering ideas and toys (in the form of furniture) to enhance your sex life, help you discover new and fun things about yourself and your partner.
As mentioned earlier, sex furniture can give you and your partner the incentive to try something new.
And if you incorporate restraint systems (all of our furniture comes complete with restraint points) this makes it easy to experiment with bondage, and varying degrees of submissiveness.
Tying, or otherwise restraining your partner to a beautiful piece of bondage furniture can put them in just the right position to prolong pleasure (and pleasurable pain if you want to go there).
The dominant partner can view his (or her) submissive in a whole new light. I can’t speak for anyone else, but I look forward to every planned bondage and discipline session Clyde devises for us. Even the anticipation is exciting.
And trying something new is almost never a bad thing. It can keep your sex life, and your relationship very healthy.
Try something new this summer!
Until next time,
Bonnie
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